Feral Girl Fall Starts Now: Prepping for Cozy Chaos

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Okay, hear me out: August may technically still be summer, but I’m calling it — spooky season is already knocking. The mornings feel just a little cooler, pumpkin spice is slowly creeping back onto menus, and my TikTok feed is suddenly full of witchy makeup looks, oversized sweater hauls, and people buying Halloween décor and crafting like it’s a competitive sport. Halloween is inching closer every single day, and I am so here for it.

I’ve been watching this slow seasonal shift since the end of July. People are already living their best pumpkin-scented, cinnamon-swirled, black-cat-approved lives — and honestly? Same. My inner goblin has been waiting all year for this, and now she’s ready to come out and play.

If you’ve ever tried to sew your own Halloween costume, you know the earlier you start, the better. Because once October hits? Forget it. The fabric stores are chaos, the craft stores are cleaned out, and the only thing you’ll have time to make is a desperate “last minute” plan. This year, I’m dreaming up a super fun (and maybe slightly unhinged) cosplay mashup — the kind of thing that may or may not actually get done in time, but makes me giddy just thinking about it. But honestly? Feral Girl Fall isn’t just about costumes. It’s about leaning all the way into the chaotic coziness of the season.

And since I live in Northern New York — no, not Albany… keep going north until you hit the “why is it snowing sideways in October, are we in Antarctica?” zone — prepping early isn’t optional. I learned this the hard way growing up. Some years, trick-or-treating meant snow pants under my costume. Other years, I’d stubbornly skip gloves and end up sick before November even started. These days, I’ve learned how to keep the magic and the mischief while also taking care of myself — so I can actually enjoy the season without turning into a human icicle.

So let’s talk about how to embrace Feral Girl Fall — equal parts chaotic, cozy, witchy, and unapologetically self-indulgent. Because this season isn’t just a vibe… it’s a lifestyle.

Step 1: Cozy Clothing Season Is Coming

We are so close to that magical moment when oversized sweaters, fuzzy socks, and thick, snuggly pajamas take over our wardrobes. And honestly? This is peak feral girl fashion — the season where you fully embrace looking like a cozy cryptid one moment and a witchy forest goddess the next. Some days, that means you’re wrapped in a blanket burrito, tea in hand, eyes peeking out like you’re plotting your next great mischief. Other days, you’re in an oversized hoodie, stomping around in boots, giving “I may hex you, but I’ll do it fashionably” energy. And sometimes? It’s grabbing a corset, tossing your head back, and declaring, “I am Morticia Addams” — then absolutely rocking it.

For me, hair always plays into the vibe. I don’t have long mermaid waves to toss dramatically over my shoulder — my style is my TWA mohawk, either straightened or showing off its natural texture, usually dyed something bold. (Right now, it’s a fiery red that could give a pumpkin jealousy issues, but I’m very tempted to go purple and teal next.) Lately, I’ve been rocking box braid extensions as a protective style, which means I get the cozy fall aesthetic and keep my hair healthy. Win-win.

And of course — because I’m me — there will be makeup. Fall is when my palette shifts just enough to feel fresh. I’ll still reach for loud, unapologetic colors when I’m feeling bold, but I also love leaning into warm neutrals, molten golds, and deep berry tones. There’s just something about a smoky bronze eye and a burgundy lip that feels like stepping into my full fall goddess energy.

(Pro tip: I’ll be sharing some autumn makeup tutorials in this month’s newsletter, so stay tuned — they’ll be perfect whether you’re going for “witch in the woods” or “cozy bookshop babe.”)

Step 2: Lotion, Hydration, and Warmth

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If Step 1 is about looking like a cozy cryptid, Step 2 is about surviving like one. These are my holy trinity of seasonal survival — the non-negotiables that keep me soft, glowing, and functional while the cold tries to suck the soul (and moisture) out of my body.

Lotion – Your skin is your largest organ and, unfortunately, it’s about to enter battle season. Between cold winds outside and bone-dry heat indoors, your skin will be begging for mercy. And listen… I’m guilty of skipping lotion too. But here’s my feral girl hack: slather it on immediately after your shower, before your skin fully dries. You trap in way more moisture that way, and you’ll stay softer for longer — which, yes, includes your elbows, knees, and that random patch on your ankle that always gets dry first.

Hydration – Oh, you thought I was going to stop talking about water just because it’s not July anymore? Cute. Staying hydrated keeps your skin plump, your brain clear, and your energy from flatlining halfway through the day. And yes, I know you want your cozy lattes — me too — but balance them with some actual water so you don’t turn into a human raisin. (Also, pro tip: herbal tea counts. You’re welcome.)

Warmth – Where I live, winter doesn’t politely knock — it kicks the door down and yells, “Surprise!” Temperatures can dip into the negatives (-30°F on rare but evil days), so I’ve learned the art of cozy armor: layers, fuzzy blankets, and an unreasonable collection of mugs for hot drinks. Add in heat packs, fuzzy slippers, and maybe a chunky scarf that doubles as a shield against the icy wind, and you’re golden. The goal? Keep that soft, indulgent energy alive even when the outside world is auditioning for a Frozen sequel.

Step 3: Chaotic Journaling & Seasonal Creativity

Listen — not everyone journals like I do, with a digital setup and a bunch of AI conversations to supplement (never replace) therapy. If you’re a pen-and-paper babe, this is prime time to turn your journal into a seasonal masterpiece that screams autumn every time you open it.

Go feral with it. Go extra. Slap on stickers like you’re twelve years old again and just discovered glitter. Press leaves between the pages. Tape in feathers. Glue in scraps of ribbon or lace. Seasonal washi tape? Absolutely. Old magazine pages you swore you’d read but never will? Tear them up and make them art. Reading a dark romance book? Add your favorite weirdly motivational quotes. (One of mine, from Leather and Lark by Brynne Weaver: “You’re doing good. So fucking brave.”) The messier and more chaotic, the better — this isn’t about perfection. It’s about joy.

I used to have these ridiculous glitter bubble stickers and chunky 3D designs that made my journal feel like a treasure chest of chaos. Remember Lisa Frank? Yeah — channel that level of unapologetic magic. If your journal doesn’t look like a unicorn and a witch threw a tea party in it, you’re not doing it feral enough.

Want to go even bigger? Build yourself a seasonal journal box. Grab a small container from the dollar store and fill it with your fall-vibe arsenal: stickers, printed photos, dried flowers, random trinkets from walks, little charms, maybe even mini pinecones if you’re feeling ambitious. Then, every time you sit down to write, it’s like opening a treasure chest for your creativity. No rules. No judgment. Just cozy chaos and pure self-expression.

Step 4: Give Yourself Permission to Be Messy

Here’s the thing — Feral Girl Fall is not about perfection. It’s not about having the “aesthetic” down to a curated Instagram grid or keeping your sweaters folded neatly in a color-coded closet. No, no, no. It’s about letting warmth and chaos exist in the same breath.

It’s wearing that giant, soft sweater three days in a row because it feels like a hug you can’t take off. It’s letting your eyeliner smudge into an accidental smoky eye and deciding it was totally intentional. It’s writing messy, run-on thoughts in your journal that sound like a half-drunk poem only you will ever understand. It’s drinking your tea too strong, burning your tongue, and still going back for another sip because it just tastes like home.

Feral Girl Fall is witchy goblin princess energy — the kind of vibe where you could curse someone’s crops in the morning, charm a stranger by noon, and take a nap under a pile of blankets by 3 PM. It’s unbothered, it’s indulgent, it’s a little bit chaotic, and it’s exactly what your soul has been craving.

Your Cozy-Chaos Invitation

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So here it is — your official permission slip to let August be your soft launch into Feral Girl Fall. Start pulling your cozy wardrobe from the depths of your closet. Lay out your lotions, balms, and body butters like a witch stocking her apothecary. Play with your makeup just for you — dramatic berry lips, bronze lids, glitter on your cheekbones like you’re bottling stardust. Let your journal become a messy, magical scrapbook of whatever your heart feels in the moment.

Don’t wait until October to embrace it. Let the cozy chaos start now. Because this — these little rituals, these bursts of creativity, these unapologetic comforts — this is the magic that will carry you through the darker months ahead.

Fall is coming. Your Feral Girl Era starts now.